I love this game but the culture is so intense. There are so many reasons people might make a mistake. Long day at work. Child in the background. A different skill level. Genuine mistake or misinterpreting of the clue (interpreting clues is the point of the game! If people want to put to cards in a row by themselves they should play Solitaire).
It is not helpful and makes me question my moves more, making me more likely to make mistakes. And even with conventions I've found I've been questioned for doing one thing in a situation I've been questioned for NOT doing in another.
End rant. Not sure how to change the culture of the game on this site but maybe can we all just relax a bit? (????)