Stop automatically accept arena games

[BattleBott]

The problem is that you ARE NOT NOTIFIED when the game starts.

This truly *. How many votes does it take to get their attention?

*moderator edit: please use family-friendly language

[ArmagedOFF]

This * is killing me...
I just got another -30 arena points and -10% karma. I WAS ONLINE, ON BGA! I was processing turn based games. It didn't open a real-time game for me, I didn't get any notifications, NOTHING! Then I came back to the game list and BOOM: I'm kicked out from the game!
* BGA?

*moderator edit: BGA is a family-friendly platform. Please do not curse.

[Poeppelpaul]

Please BGA, fix this!
Real time arena for all but the most popular games is unusable without manual confirmation or RELIABLE notification.
I regularly lose the ability to even play arena games because of this bug. And I hate that it makes me abandon other players without me intending or even knowing.