sourisdudesert wrote:Thanks for your messages.
Well, the fault is ours : we didn't make clear wether the thumbs were for the community or for personal "blacklist". So some players are using it to report "bad" players to the community, and some are giving red thumb just because someone doesn't say "hi". To solve this, we have to make a choice, and as there are many many issues linked to "public shaming through red thumb", we choose to make green/red thumb something personal. All further evolutions will go in this direction.
It may be you didn't make it clear, but there will always be people who do stuff whether it's clear or not. Every site I've ever been to that used green/red or up/down thumbs have always been public where everyone could see it.
There's other ways to solve that issue. First, dump the auto-can't play with again thing. You can make a blacklist where players can
choose who they want to blacklist. It shouldn't be forced on everyone whenever they leave a red thumb. I just left one and I hated that I had to agree they can't play with me again. I left the red thumb anyway cause that was the more important issue to me and I didn't want to let that stop me. But I certainly didn't like. I don't like something having control like that. A personal blacklist leaves it up to us to make that decision for ourselves.
As to people not knowing, it's just a simple matter of pointing out on the red thumb that this is going to be on their public profile and should only be used if it's meant to warn others about the player, and that if it's just a personal thing, we can leave a note about them, or blacklist them. You can even include the blacklist option right there.
I'm not sure giving a reason is useful because if someone's reason isn't in that list, they'll just pick one and it won't make any more sense than not having a reason. People who leave red thumbs for stupid reasons aren't likely to be concerned about this.
If you don't like the "public shame" thing, just dump the whole thumb concept altogether, although I don't see anything wrong with it. For those who leave these for silly reasons, the recipient likely has enough green that it doesn't make much difference. But if someone has a higher percentage of red ones, it probably has legitimate meaning.