bananasplay wrote: ↑01 October 2022, 01:39My theory so far is that this sort of whining comes either from a place of emotional weakness (i.e., such players can't handle losing or even merely being disadvantaged, as is typical of very young children) or from a more sinister motivation: since the whiners obviously can't
prevent legal moves, perhaps they attempt psychological manipulation in order to preempt such moves in the future.
No, you can think of it of some gentleman's rules.
There is lots of examples, but I will take one I can explain well. In competitive civilisation 6 with 4 players versus 4 players, there was a strategy available which was around having lots of luxurious ressources early, give all of those to a specific player and nation (which in normal circonstances is really bad), and then have a quick cultural victory (at around turn 30, while a really fast game is won at turn ~70, and an average one at turn ~100).
This strategy is available, but no one use it.
Then come the finale. One team decide to use it and win with it.
The other team said about "We didn't think that they will use that strategy. But it's our fault, we should have banned it instead of banning something else. But we wouldn't have used it yourself.".
The second part look normal: it's competitive, the strategy is available, so everyone agree it's possible to use it.
But the first part is the most interresting. They assumed the other team would not use something as 'dirty' to win. It can be think as 'we will not do it because of ethical reason, and we assume the other team will do the same.'. At this point, when they don't, you can assume it's not ethical, and share it.
What happen here is the same thing. You can decide to not block the other player, and assume the other player will do the same. If you only play with family and friend, it can be assumed the norm. So when you come online, and someone play like that, that can be pretty surprising, and you can write it on chat.
It's a complicated question. Way harder than it look.
If you imagine that no one was doing it, then the normal behaviour would be to be slightly angry in chat, and red thumb the person in question. At one point, since that person will be red thumb by most top players, he will be forced to play against player which block too.
If enough players red thumb those players, that incentive others players to not play like that.
And you finish with a community of top players who doesn't block each other.
I believe it's done with chess with bots. You find players which uses bot, which is legal, but which finish by being red thumb by non bot players, and you have a division of the community. Even if it's hard to see if a player use a bot or not.
Connect 4 6x6 and others game could have that same thing happening.
Another one is in werewolves or saboteur, where you can decide to share information or not.
One further would be to share cards in hanabi, or give unknown information in chat, I think there was a post about it on the forum a while ago. Can you said things like 'I have X in hand. If you play against X player, I will do Y.'. These kind of questions are always limit, and causes others problems.
Or a backseat. Someone has two choices: finishing 2nd and making you 1st. Or finishing 3rd and making you 2nd. But finishing 2nd for him is really hard and require lots of specific actions. Can you tell him what he should do?
Or can you use a known bug? There was a problem for some weeks/months in room25, think it was during beta.
Or can you expel someone which is 21s out of time, even if he tell in chat he has an emergency and will came back in 30s? I think that last example is the best one. To quote you again
The object of the game is to win: it is therefore a mystery to me why some players complain about the legal, strategic moves of their opponents in pursuit of that end.
So go for it, expel him, take your elo, and your red thumb.
But in most cases, it's more clear: the normal behaviour on this site is to block the other player. So go ahead