Board Game Arena

Hi everyone. Firstly, thank you Dan for this game. Love it so much.

I've been playing this IRL for over a year now...and just started playing on BGA. I must be doing the courtship calculations wrong Because I'm losing courtships that thought I would win and winning courtship a I was sure I would lose! I'm confused. I thought it was quite simple...yet I look at all the players tiles/info and it doesn't make sense to me.

Please explain! I won this but was sure that the third player was a winner...

Ok can't upload the screenshot but here is a rundown.

Me: 2. 5 2. 12. 1
2: 5. 2. 4. 6. 5
3. 3. 1. 12. 11. 2

Order of courtship cards was Brown, Blue, Purple, Green

Oh nevermind, I was adding in the pink categories too! I realised once I wrote out the scores.