You may have misunderstood what kingmaking is referring to here. Kingmaking is a term used to refer to three quite distinct things in board games.Blacktango wrote: ↑03 April 2023, 11:31 IMO, kingmaking is not cheating. I mean, it does not break the rule of the game.
A game with a 'kingmaking problem' refers to games with three or more players in which it is common for the actions of the player who will finish in third (or a lower position) to affect the position of other players without materially affecting their own position. This is a design problem but nothing to do with cheating.
When a player is 'kingmaking' this refers to making moves that improve the position of another player while providing no benefit to the player making the move. This is very poor sportsmanship. It is a breach of the social contract that underpins the play of boardgames and is akin to but not the same as cheating. This may be what you were discussing in which case you used the term correctly.
However, as boardgames have exploded in popularity in the last twenty years and sites like this draw in a lot of people with little of no experience of games and so 'kingmaking' is often used incorrectly to refer to collusion or compacts in which two or more players secretly arranged to aid each other in advance of a game. This absolutely is cheating, and a violation of BGA rules, but its very hard to demonstrate or police, and since it often looks like kingmaking the two get confused. It seems very likely that the person you were responding to had engaged in this common misunderstanding and was referring to collusion rather than kingmaking.
Cheating is much rarer on the site than posters of these sorts of threads believe. Such unsubstantiated claims of cheating, like unsubstantiated claims of hacking, or that the random generator is rigged stem from conspiratorial thinking, are significantly more detrimental than the supposed problem (its worth noting in the one clear case of cheating through an exploit, already linked above, the thread had serious issues gaining traction with the site, and thus being resolved, precisely because of all the false claims that had been made - a classic example of the boy who cried wolf).