It's not just you. Happens all the time.
I set all my turn-based tables to the highest possible karma limits (usually >75%, but sometimes 85% is available for whatever reason). Helps a bit but not fully. Players with 100% karma still log in and play once or twice in the first day and then instantly run out of time.
Playing in Arena helps a lot more, but yeah, that's not possible/desirable for all games.
I have had the following policy for a while:
- When I see someone in the red, I send them a polite direct message, telling them they are out of time and asking if they are able to play soon.
- If they don't respond, I kick after 12 hours if still in the red.
- If they do respond and seem to make an attempt to fix it, I give them 24 hours to get into the green and remain there.
The results have been... mixed.
The majority don't respond and don't speed up.
The next block of players are those that
do respond with something like "Sorry" or "Yes"... And then don't speed up anyway and keep going more and more over time...
Then there are the precious few who actually do speed up and keep time after being reminded. One actually used a time joker - that's a really good move when entering a too fast / wrong hours game by mistake. That's completely fair game.
I have
never had someone explicitly say as an explanation, that they didn't see the playing speed, or hours, or entered a fast game by mistake. The closest I've had was the chap who used the time joker who said something like "bad time zone", so I guess that could mean they were unaware when joining. So I don't know how much we can blame the interface here, if it was a huge UX problem that people entered unwanted game settings by mistake you'd think more people would say so? Like "Oh *, is the pace set to 24 moves/day? I didn't notice, sorry, could we abandon?".
Never had anyone say that.
I'm thinking of stopping with this messaging policy, however, as I'm not sure the results are good enough that it's worth the mental energy.
*Moderator edit: please refrain from swearing on BGA, this is a family-friendly platform.