Kicked after less seconds minus mostly when I had more points

[Zalaz]

Hi !
My reputation went bad because my time was going out because of sometimes I was thinking, sometimes my moves wouldnt send to surver. Some players was patient and wait! but there were also players that kick me immedatly when time runs out and I had more points. That is a unfortunatly for me because my reputation runs so to 40 though I played the game. I understand when players kick me because I felt in sleep. that is totaly ok but not if I am there and play. That is also a thing that is not ok between people. So I lost fun to play and lost the will to be prime. Please find a fair solution!

[Suoivax]

Hi !
My reputation went bad because my time was going out because of sometimes I was thinking, sometimes my moves wouldnt send to surver. Some players was patient and wait! but there were also players that kick me immedatly when time runs out and I had more points. That is a unfortunatly for me because my reputation runs so to 40 though I played the game. I understand when players kick me because I felt in sleep. that is totaly ok but not if I am there and play. That is also a thing that is not ok between people. So I lost fun to play and lost the will to be prime. Please find a fair solution!

The solution is to not play at tables with fast settings if you can't play that fast.

[Zalaz]

No that is not the solution because I open the game and I never choose fast gameplay - see my profile I wrote that I am not a fast gamer !
I would never kick anyone just while he think one or two times over the time. If someone didnt play I ask: all ok? because for example the last 2 days the surver dont take the move. I have to reload the page and then I can make my move. That is also time that the other person dont see if I play or if it is a technical problem.

[Meeplelowda]

No that is not the solution because I open the game and I never choose fast gameplay

If you aren't choosing fast, then it means you are choosing normal or slow. If normal is too fast, then choose slow. If slow is too fast, then you need to play turn based or friendly mode.

see my profile I wrote that I am not a fast gamer !

No one is obligated to read your profile and cater their behavior to its contents. If I were forced to guess, I'd estimate that fewer than 10% of players ever look at anyone else's profile.

I would never kick anyone just while he think one or two times over the time. If someone didnt play I ask: all ok? because for example the last 2 days the surver dont take the move. I have to reload the page and then I can make my move. That is also time that the other person dont see if I play or if it is a technical problem.

You have to understand that what you or I would choose to do is frankly irrelevant. The BGA framework allows a player to kick someone who is out of time. Period. Just because you wouldn't do it or I wouldn't do it (I'm not saying I never do, but how I choose to is beyond the scope of this post) or you think it's mean to do it does not change the fact that anyone who does it is not violating any BGA rules. You don't have to like that fact or agree with it. You do have to live with it. Red thumb anyone you think did it unfairly and move on with your life.

[Jellby]

The time settings may be secondary for you, maybe you just want to play in relaxing way and enjoy it. Fair enough.

But maybe the other player(s) at the table chose that specific setting because they want/need to play with that specific setting, and they cannot/don't want to play any slower. Your motives, mood, personal situation, etc. are NOT everyone else's.