I would not be sad if I never played another game of Catan in my life, but I don't begrudge anyone who thinks it's the best game of all time. I've come across people who literally only play one game on BGA. 1,000s of plays of one game on a site that has 100s to choose from (I call them "monocroppers"). Whatever floats your boat.MarkSteere wrote: ↑27 November 2025, 14:02 I never understood the rules of any more complicated games, much less how to play them decently. Catan was recommended as one of the easier games, but I didn't get it, didn't enjoy it, and gave up in short order.
It's not a zero sum game. Someone liking a style of game you don't doesn't mean there's something wrong with what you like. It may mean it's less popular, but you shouldn't be measuring worth solely by popularity. Does it make it hard to find others to play with? Sure. The wait time for some of the abstracts on here can be 15 minutes or more if you want to play real-time.
As RicardoRix wrote above:
I'm near to completing a project of playing every game rated in the Top 50 on Board Game Geek that is available on BGA (that I hadn't already played over the board). The purpose was 1) to force myself to play things I might not otherwise be inclined to try for various reasons, and 2) to try to understand why they were highly rated, i.e., what other people see in them even if I don't personally like them. A sommelier knows what makes a good wine, and may recommend something even if it's not something they would choose for their own wine refrigerator at home.Everytime you take a step away from a abstract 2-player you are undoubtable introducing different elements and combinations that you may or may not like (luck can be a huge factor here). And that's often very personal, which is why you can get a very varied opinion about the same game from 2 different people that otherwise share common interests. We are all here after all, we all like board games. It's all getting very philosophical.