Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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Tafffy
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

Post by Tafffy »

I prefer when they concede since the outcome of the game is often obvious at that point, and having to carry it out when you know what will happen gets a bit annoying. If they say anything that's a nice bonus but it shouldn't be expected. Keep in mind your opponent often doesn't speak the same language as you and thus won't be very talkative.
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centauri84
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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In some online games, people simply write "gg" (good game) when it's over. It's a nice convention but Tafffy makes a good point that many people might not speak the same language. In general, though, it would be nice for players to learn a "gg" convention. Perhaps BGA could add a "thank you" and/or "good game" button that would work in the person's local language and be a polite way of saying bye to everyone in a game.
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Shivaware
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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centauri84 wrote: 28 November 2021, 12:34 In some online games, people simply write "gg" (good game) when it's over. It's a nice convention but Tafffy makes a good point that many people might not speak the same language. In general, though, it would be nice for players to learn a "gg" convention. Perhaps BGA could add a "thank you" and/or "good game" button that would work in the person's local language and be a polite way of saying bye to everyone in a game.
In fact, this feature already exists. In the chat box, if you click on the meeple, you will get a list of predefined messages. These messages are automatically translated in each person's local language.
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Jellby
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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Just go a step further, an make a resignation automatically write "gg" in chat ;)
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shrouded figure
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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Jellby wrote: 28 November 2021, 17:39 Just go a step further, an make a resignation automatically write "gg" in chat ;)
Um. Just no. What if someone is conceding from an unpleasant game? For instance if the opponent were using hacks. That's the very definition of not a good game.
King Hrothbeort
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

Post by King Hrothbeort »

Some people prefer to play the game to the end, others prefer to concede. Usually it makes hardly any difference. In addition to just wanting to save time a conceding player may see they have no move that advances their position. A player who wants to play it out despite seeing they are going to lose may want to see what is the best position / highest score they can get to. At one point my all time high score in a game was a game which I lost. It is also possible that a player is playing out the full game because they haven't seen that they cannot win from their position.

I think a simple "gg" in the chat helps, whereas comments like "you should have conceded" are detrimental.
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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angelbunnyEC3 wrote: 28 November 2021, 00:53 I conceded a game today because my opponent admitted to having "the best hacks". ... opponent received fifteen turns in a row where their piece moved very quickly.
When you post this sort of paranoid disinformation you damage the play experience on the site by encouraging others to think such false conspiratorial allegations are acceptable and you look foolish.
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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RobertBr wrote: 30 November 2021, 11:39
angelbunnyEC3 wrote: 28 November 2021, 00:53 I conceded a game today because my opponent admitted to having "the best hacks". ... opponent received fifteen turns in a row where their piece moved very quickly.
When you post this sort of paranoid disinformation you damage the play experience on the site by encouraging others to think such false conspiratorial allegations are acceptable and you look foolish.
Wow... moderation needed here.
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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Ze Monstah wrote: 30 November 2021, 12:18
RobertBr wrote: 30 November 2021, 11:39
angelbunnyEC3 wrote: 28 November 2021, 00:53 I conceded a game today because my opponent admitted to having "the best hacks". ... opponent received fifteen turns in a row where their piece moved very quickly.
When you post this sort of paranoid disinformation you damage the play experience on the site by encouraging others to think such false conspiratorial allegations are acceptable and you look foolish.
Wow... moderation needed here.
I kinda agree.
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Re: Conceding a game with grace.... a lost art?

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The only thing that annoys me about conceding at the last moment is that by not properly finishing the game, you don't get the informative and maybe helpful final stats. This doesn't matter if the concession is early in the game, but say 1 turn from the end, its a bit frustrating. Especially if you were looking forward to analysing them, which I often do!
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