PLOT TWIST:smallgreenblur wrote: ↑01 June 2025, 09:03I think Frank’s reply which sounds offended that I would even ask the question because it’s not tactically optimised gives me the answer to my original question.CapitalDecay wrote: ↑31 May 2025, 23:00 I think the gentleman's agreement, at least higher skilled players, is always two actions, unless you need to, then tit for tat (you start doing one action, I start doing one action until you go back to two). Most games I've played, players will even sell card, sell card. I've never seen someone do 1 action only every / most turns. Royalrook made a similar post https://boardgamearena.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=36090 a few months back with a lot of discussion.
I made the original post because I played arena twice yesterday, the first game I was ahead but got distracted by my wife for a minute and the guy kicked me out at -21 seconds without a word. The second I played against an elite elo player who skipped every second go the entire game and got offended when I said I’d rather lose than play like that.
I think if that (and Frank) are representative of the TM community I’ll find another game![]()
You played 5 games of Terraforming Mars yesterday.
In all 5 games. YOU used more timer per action that your opponent; in some cases, you used significantly more time.
I find this a bit ironic considering you seem to feel as though you are being victimized by players playing too slowly and causing games to drag.
And, by your own admission, in one game, you didn't focus on the game, causing your clock to go more than 20 seconds into the negative. So, in actuality, you are the player using more clock than your opponent, and then you went 21 seconds into the negative. I would not have booted you from the game, but your opponent had every right to do so.
You say he booted you without a word. When you got "distracted" by your wife, did you type anything in the chat? "Hey, my Wife needs my help for a couple minutes, please do not boot me from the game if my clock goes slightly into the negative." ?