Shout-out to Nekonyancer

[JoysJoy]

They do good tutorials, I'm also usually pleased to find a Nekonyancer tutorial on a game I want to learn. You can message them directly, which is possibly more likely for them to see than posting in the forums though.

It's a unique person, not a group

I'm aware it's a person, but as I wasn't necessarily sure if it was a male or female person, I used they/them pronouns (I know this info is potentially on a player's profile, but I didn't want to look them up, and generally just go this way to avoid misgendering someone - it fairly often happens to me, as I'm a female, but often presumed to be male).

Using the word “they” miss genders everybody who is binary. It is not gender neutral, it is a non-binary term.

[SiRan90]

It's a unique person, not a group

I'm aware it's a person, but as I wasn't necessarily sure if it was a male or female person, I used they/them pronouns (I know this info is potentially on a player's profile, but I didn't want to look them up, and generally just go this way to avoid misgendering someone - it fairly often happens to me, as I'm a female, but often presumed to be male).

Using the word “they” miss genders everybody who is binary. It is not gender neutral, it is a non-binary term.

Not really. They has been used for hundreds of years when the persons genders are unknown

[Skankityspence]

It's a unique person, not a group

I'm aware it's a person, but as I wasn't necessarily sure if it was a male or female person, I used they/them pronouns (I know this info is potentially on a player's profile, but I didn't want to look them up, and generally just go this way to avoid misgendering someone - it fairly often happens to me, as I'm a female, but often presumed to be male).

Using the word “they” miss genders everybody who is binary. It is not gender neutral, it is a non-binary term.

Can't tell if you're joking or not, but "they" can definitely be used as a way to refer to a group, a singular person whose gender is not known or does not need to be mentioned, OR a single person whose gender is non-binary.

At any rate, if you truly believe using "they" misgenders people, you've broken your own rule: https://boardgamearena.com/forum/viewto ... 70#p184670

[Jellby]

I don't know what the other person is talking about. Your grammar was totally fine. Verb always has to agree with the pronoun no matter the meaning behind it. "They do" works.

My remark was tongue-in-cheek. I'm not a native English speaker, so I don't claim to be "correct" (from what I have read/heard, it is true that the verb tends to be in the plural form). But there's something called "construction ad sensum" or notional agreement (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synesis) in English as well as in other languages, meaning that verb not always has to agree.

[JoysJoy]

I'm aware it's a person, but as I wasn't necessarily sure if it was a male or female person, I used they/them pronouns (I know this info is potentially on a player's profile, but I didn't want to look them up, and generally just go this way to avoid misgendering someone - it fairly often happens to me, as I'm a female, but often presumed to be male).

Using the word “they” miss genders everybody who is binary. It is not gender neutral, it is a non-binary term.

Can't tell if you're joking or not, but "they" can definitely be used as a way to refer to a group, a singular person whose gender is not known or does not need to be mentioned, OR a single person whose gender is non-binary.

At any rate, if you truly believe using "they" misgenders people, you've broken your own rule: https://boardgamearena.com/forum/viewto ... 70#p184670

"They" in this case means BGA and/ or any other developer, since that one person is not online anymore. And the thread was about someone fixing the game. I wish we had used "per" and "person" to refer to non-gendered. Non-bianary get * over with the current way of thinking. I have one trans child and one non-bianary and can't undesrtand why the non-bianary get so little respect from those who are trying to be politically correct about it all. "They" are real, too.

And I'm not declaring "MY RULES" to the world. You said you used the word to not misgender, so I'm pointing out that to non-biarnary folks, you still misgendered. Trans are constantly thought about and accomodated, but non-bianary are ignored. Very hard to even talk about non-bianary folks as the only words they have are used other ways.

*Moderator edit: please refrain from swearing on BGA, this is a family-friendly platform.

[RicardoRix]

gg Nekonyancer. Well played.

[xate]

Please keep the discussion here on topic "Shout-out to Nekonyancer". If you wish to continue the discussion about pronouns etc, please take the conversation to another space, such as the Off-Topic Forum.

I'd like to add my admiration for Nekonyancer, as well - you're tutorials are always very well done and save me the tedious effort of learning by any other method. I am lazy when it comes to reading rulebooks and appreciate how much time it saves to play through one of your tutorials. Also, as a kinetic learner, I feel like I remember the rules best this way, too. Thank you so much again from me and the other BGA Admins!